Adios Amigos (The Road to Bali)
In addition to being a solid surfing partner and a true Sayulita communitarian, always on hand to lend a hand, Nick is a smart, observant guy. During that first year, as my family and I struggled to find our place in this wonderful but somewhat insular community, he was very helpful. I use the word insular because in a community as transient as this - that is the nature of a tourist town, after all -people aren't that willing to commit to real friendship until you've been here awhile. This makes sense, for as we have all learned, it's tough to make friends and then watch them leave. It happens all the time here, especially with kids on vacation, but with adults as well. People learn to be careful about making emotional connections that can be broken so quickly.
Nobody quite gets that, arriving fresh off the boat.
This was one of the many insights Nick shared with me in the first months I lived here; I, in turn, like to think I gave him a little useful advice out in the water. Or at least kept him good company. He's certainly improved his wave-riding skills in the past two years.
We haven't surfed together as much this past year for whatever reasons. Different schools, schedules, paths. A hit-and-miss year of mediocre waves. Times change. And now Nick and Treva and Astrid are leaving on an extended trip - 6 months, 8 months, who knows? - to the states and then Indonesia, for a long stretch in Bali, where he will be tested and challenged as a surfer, I'm sure.
So this is a note of thanks for the good times in the water, and goodbye; see you whenever you get back. Ironic that you're doing what the transients do, leaving town. But we all figure you'll be back before too long. After all you are "firmly ensconced," dude.
When I first started coming to Sayulita around 12 years ago, I met a guy working at Chocobanana whom I soon discovered was also a talented longboard surfer and a subtle kind of wise guy with a bit of an enigmatic air about him. He was smart and funny--and he was bilingual, which was a godsend to me since I seem terminally incapable of learning Spanish. Or I've just gotten to be a lazy good-for-nothing here in the tropical sun. In any case, when we'd come down here on holiday I'd see this guy around, here and there, in the waves or in town, and we became nodding acquaintances. Then when we moved here, to Calle Chiripa on the north side, I discovered that he lived right around the corner with his wife and son.
And so in the past two years, I got to be pretty good friends with Jorge Grosso, and his wife Karin and son Tao. We surfed together a lot, hung out on the beach, and generally enjoyed each other's company. Jorge has been a property manager, a yoga teacher and aficionado, and an impresario of sorts here in Sayulita this past 6 years, and I'm sure many of you know him by sight if not by name.
Now he's gone. He and Karin and Tao have left, for Bali, by way of Guadalajara, California, Thailand, the Great Wherever. He and I had some good times together, surfing La Lancha or Burros or the left here in town.
So both of these surf amigos, who have been part of my life these past two years, are headed out to the same magical little island in Indo. A couple of good surfing compadres gone, just like that. That's life here in the little city, people come and go. Like the waves we love.
Watch out boys; I know the waves are fierce out there. I hope you'll be back before too long. When you do come, bring some waves. Meanwhile may you find many fine barrels out there in that other paradise on the far side of the world.